Toni’s Tidbits: I am Not a Sugar Cougar

Toni's Tidbits

You love my picture huh, so it’s going to be called Toni’s Tidbits now instead of Tuesday’s Tidbits.

So as you all know I went to Las Vegas last week for Sitscation.  I had a blast staying at The Venetian and attending Kim Kardashian’s birthday…oh yes I did!!!  You’re jealous aren’t you?  MOre on that in another post for now today’s tidbits are about Sugar Cougars, stupid guys and ego stroking!

Oh yeah, I got hit on and the funny thing is I totally would have went for an idiot like that back in the day, thank goodness for wising up as you get older and hitting the jackpot when you get married, I heart my hubs. Some questions for you this Tuesday:

~So ladies have you ever gotten hit on by guys since you have been married?

~Were you as brutal as I was to the poor blokes?

~Also who has ever been to Vegas and what were some of your favorite memories?

~ Last but not least, who is in for a Vegas meet up, no conferences just a vacation, we can totally start planning one you know!

Have a great Tuesday and share your thoughts/ answers in the comments below 🙂

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Hi! I'm Toni. I am a happily married, christian, momma of 3 living on Florida's sunny Gulf Coast. I am a lifestyle blogger and Seint Arist. I started blogging when my last child was born as a way to share my love of all things travel, cooking, beauty, recipes, and more. Now pull up a chair, grab a glass of sweet tea and let's get to know each other. I truly hope you enjoy getting A Daily Dose of Toni!


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    You are CRACKING me up! “Yes, Sara and I are brilliant!” lol

    Oh, girlie I had a blast with you while in Vegas. The stroke of Ego was definitely something I hadn’t felt in awhile, although.. the guy hitting on me was a tad bit older than your guy.

    It’s hard to believe they ACTUALLY thought their “one liners” and “swoop and surrounds” would be likable?!


    They’ll learn one day.

    AHHHHHHHHHHH lets go again!
    .-= Sara@My Sippy Cup Runneth Over´s last blog ..Las Vegas Times with the SITS Girls =-.

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    I was hit on when I was working in a doctor’s office by a med student who was younger than I am. At first I thought it was flattering until I realized that 1.) He’s used to working with cadavers 2.)I was the only woman in the office that wasn’t 50+ and 3.) He works 48 hrs straight and probably doesn’t have contact with many live, quasi-young, women. But seriously, I’m happily married and although it isn’t often in the least that I get hit on, I find it a bit creepy esp. when they can tell I’m married!

    Glad I got to meet you in Vegas!
    .-= KnitPurlGurl´s last blog ..Mommy Cover Letter & Resume =-.

  3. 5

    Yes there are definite JACKHOLES in the world!! Use it appropriately!! Enjoy!

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    I got hit on the other day at the grocery store…despite having my 3 kids, and my wedding rings with me!

    I leaned over to get a sample of some fruit and this guy says “excuse me Beautiful” and starts talking to me.
    .-= Lori Vann´s last blog ..Blue Ridge Train Trip! =-.

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    I went back to college at 40, and I was surprised how many of the young guys would see my wedding ring and still hit on me. I remember looking at one and saying, I’m married and I could be your mother. He said, so cruel, does it really matter? What in the world are they thinking! But, yes, it always feels good to have a guy look twice or give you great eye contact, but I’m a one man woman – married 30 years now.

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    I can’t remember the last time someone hit on me…probably about 15 pounds ago! I’ve been to Vegas twice…my most vivid memory was riding the Big Shot on the Stratosphere. Most frightening moment of my life.
    .-= Aubien´s last blog ..Second fiddle … =-.

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    How very cool to the places you go- I have read a few and am so interested in how you are able to do this? Who contacts you or who do you contact?
    We have been to Vegas (My hubby was stationed in Ca and it was close)and my best memory was really the amazing sights- by sights I mean the huge Cleopatra type ship bar/club at Ceasars Palace, the beautiful fountains at Bally’s, etc, etc I love the bright lights and non-stop activity!
    Been hit on quite often while married and we’ve been married 19 yrs! I am not tooting my horn- When I was still younger I believe it was as most guys think… everyone cheats- Jerks! Now, I think it is because… Yeah most guys think… everyone cheats- still Jerks! I guess they test the water to see what reaction they get- Boosts their ego’s if they get some “play” but I think they are Chestah Cheetah’s- I always point them out to my daughter- You can almost smell them coming! LOL Me loves my hubby too! 😉 LOL
    Would love to get together for a Vegas trip but we are allllll the way East Coast of there- Would have to be a majorly planned trip for me- Would love to read about one in your blog though! 😉

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    ~So ladies have you ever gotten hit on by guys since you have been married?

    Yep, lots. This is my second marriage.

    ~Were you as brutal as I was to the poor blokes?

    I’m usually very nice especially if they do not see my ring (like if my hands are in gloves, pockets, etc.)

    I ? men…LOL
    .-= The Redhead Riter´s last blog ..Stabbed Over A Doughnut =-.

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    you are sooooo funny!

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    I’m a bartender and have been for many many eons (it seems) so yes I have been hit on ..nightly at times. In the first of my husband and my relationship we both were bartenders and my husband being the “george clooney on a budget” that he is he got hit on ALMOSt as much as me. It took a while to get used to this..on both our parts but once we realized we’d grown immune to the pickup artists and drunk chicks (on his end) we’ve come to accept it (and even joke about it). the only time (recently) that my husband kinda got a little burr in his saddle was when one youngster who came into my bar came back the next week with a “mixed tape” (CD) for me.. Now we’ve both seen High Fidelity with John Cusak so my husband didn’t accept that the guy was just friendly! but then he listened to the CD and it was really good so we agreed that I could accept “mixed tapes” from guys as long as they were good! Call me a CD Cougar if you will. Anyway I’m a cougar anyway I’m a year older than my husband but that has changed as I am now only going to celebrate my annual 29th birtday yearly instead of adding years!!
    Oh and I’ve never been to Vegas but I’d love to just home it doesn’t end up like the “Hangover” (just watched it and peed my pants laughing so hard!!) I’m in for a girls “sugar cougar” Vegas Vacation!..I’ll bring the “mixed tapes!